I Corinthians 13
Love is patient and kind;
Love is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude.
not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
It does not rejoice at wrong,
in the right.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be
a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts,
but not into each other’s keeping,
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet
not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each
- from The Prophet, Kahlil Gibran
Apache Wedding Prayer
Now you will feel no rain,
each of you will be shelter to the other.
Now you will feel no cold,
For each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there is no more loneliness,
For each of you will be companion to the other.
Now you are two bodies,
there is only one life before you.
Go now to your dwelling place
To enter in to the days of your togetherness,
And may your days be good and long upon the earth.
Irish Wedding Blessing
May your mornings bring joy and your evenings bring peace.
May your troubles grow few as your blessings increase.
May the saddest day of your future
Be no worse than the happiest day of your past.
May your hands be forever clasped
And your hearts joined forever in love.
Your lives are very special,
God has touched you in many
May his blessings rest upon you
And fill all your coming days.
"God in heaven above please protect the ones we love.
We honor all you created as we pledge our hearts and lives
We honor mother-earth, and ask for our marriage to be abundant and grow stronger through the seasons;
We honor fire, and ask that our union be warm and glowing with love in our hearts;
We honor wind, and ask we sail
though life safe and calm as in our father's arms;
We honor water, to clean and soothe our relationship - that it may
never thirsts for love;
With all the forces of the universe you created, we pray for harmony and true happiness as we
forever grow young together. Amen."
“A Gift from the Sea” – Anne Morrow
“One recognizes the truth of Saint Exupery’s line: ‘Love does not consist in gazing
at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.’ For, in fact, man and woman are not only looking
outward in the same direction, they are working outward. Here one forms ties, roots, a firm base….Here one makes oneself
part of the community of men, of human society. Here the bonds of marriage are formed. For marriage, which is always spoken
of as a bond, becomes actually, in this stage, many bonds, many strands, of different texture and strength, making up a web
that is taut and firm. The web is fashioned of love. Yes, but many kinds of love: romantic love first, then a slow-growing
devotion, and playing through these, a constantly rippling companionship. It is made of loyalties and interdependencies and
shared experiences. It is woven of memories of meetings and conflicts; of triumphs and disappointments. It is a web of communication,
a common language, and the acceptance of lack of language too, a knowledge of likes and dislikes, of habits and reactions,
both physical and mental. It is a web of instincts and intuitions, and known and unknown exchanges. The web of marriage is
made by propinquity, in the day-to-day living side-by-side, looking outward and working outward in the same direction. It
is woven in space and in time of the substance of life itself.”
DO I LOVE THEE
~ By Elizabeth Barrett Browning ~
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee
to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely,
as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love with a passion put to use
my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, --
I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! -- and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better
HINDU MARRIAGE POEM
You have become mine forever.
Yes, we have become partners.
Hereafter, I cannot live without you.
Do not live without me.
Let us share the joys.
are word and meaning, unite.
You are thought and I am sound.
May the nights be honey-sweet for us.
the mornings be honey-sweet for us.
May the plants be honey-sweet for us.
May the earth be honey-sweet for us.